Author Archives: James

It ain’t no use putting up your umbrella till it rains

Wikipedia sayeth:
The custom of the bridal shower is said to have grown out of earlier dowry practices when a poor woman’s family might not have the money to provide a dowry for her, or when a father refused to give his daughter her dowry because he did not approve of the marriage. In such situations, [...]

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Some chord in unison with what we hear is touched within us

We broke from the moving to listen to some pieces our organist Ginny had kindly prepared for us. She was nice enough to call our descriptions for what we wanted “unique.” After hearing a lot of compositions, we froze for a minute in fear of (to us) the unknown. We don’t to want to play [...]

Posted in Ceremony, Music | Tagged french, moving, Music, organ, planning, youtube | 4 Comments

this magazine confirms my TERRIBLENESS

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thus far we maintain the music of the spheres…

It is getting to the point where relaxing is stressing us out!!! All we can think about is our checklist…
That said, we finished our invitations this past weekend, ordered all the food, and picked out our wedding bands. And we still got to enjoy a lovely time with Steph’s fam for Father’s Day. Steph’s cousin [...]

Posted in Ceremony, Music | Tagged bands, help, hymns, moving, Music, stuff | 4 Comments

e.e. cummings – i carry your heart with me

i carry your heart with me(i carry it in
my heart)i am never without it(anywhere
i go you go,my dear; and whatever is done
by only me is your doing,my darling)
i fear
no fate(for you are my fate,my sweet)i want
no world(for beautiful you are my world,my true)
and it’s you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun [...]

Posted in Musings | Tagged love, poetry | 3 Comments

oughta be in pictures

Part of the vibrant Richmond and DC ‘Zine scene, Steph was once called upon to model in an fashion shoot for Artcade Magazine. Alas for her adoring public, the photos never hit the stands, but she did meet shutterbug Nick Kirkpatrick.
When it came time to hire a photographer for our wedding, we quickly found that [...]

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so much for pathos.

Posted in Musings | Tagged lol, monty python, youtube | 3 Comments

Dinner and Dancing and Eternity to Follow

I really like this invitation:

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Hot and Homeless in Love

With all the hubbub re: the biggest party of our lives, Steph and I recently found us facing more quotidian living concerns. Namely that our lease on our lovely little cottage starts in July and that we aren’t married until near the end of September.
The complications:
1) We have to pay first and last upon [...]

Posted in After, Musings | Tagged charlottesville, help, homeless, moving, planning, stuff, youtube | 2 Comments

Give us the spoons.

I tried to be offended and indignant to the following, I tried to say, “There’s no need to trumpet your disdain,” but in the end I just decided it was really funny.
I am in love – and that means I get consumer durables for free! I demand a new kitchen – and you will pay [...]

Posted in Musings, Registry | Tagged family, friends, gifts, lol | 1 Comment